Nowadays Shanta Iwan (Limbu), one of the members of Manakamana Women Groups seems very happy as she has no bar to take part in groups. She attends meetings, and groups works on time. She had not felt that she would be as happy as she is today before 7 or 8 months. Her husband used to drink all time and make quarrel with her. He used to chase her with Khukuri and use vulgar words to scolding so that there was negative impact of their relationship even in neighbor. Her husband used to stop her from taking part in groups, and used to show abnormal behavior upon her. According to her husband Khadga Iwa as he remembers the past days "I did not like my wife going in meeting, groups and training of the groups. I used to see fault of only others and make complain in nonsense matters. I used to beat my wife as I can control elephant, buffalos by beating them why not this wife." But after some time when he got Adharsila Training and he further says " I changed my thinking upon her. It brought the change on myself. I realized my faults. I begun to feel happiness in family and good relationship between husband and wife. I started to make discussion on the problems and carryout the solutions. Beating wife has no solution I again realized that. We should have the cooperative spirit in all I understood through the training. I never beat my wife form now. Now we share different ideas of training in family. I feel happy of working my wife in groups. I gave up alcohol and make no quarrel in house. I play role of mediator in other's quarrels. On the other hand Shata says " If my husband had not participated in Adharshila Training I should have left the group. I could not come at this situation. Because of Adharsila Trianing of Heifer there is a big change in us. We are all happy due to the training. I got more knowledge from training rather than the property and money. I cannot forget my group and the adharshila training in whole life. I thank Adharsila Training which changed my life."